{"id":251,"date":"2020-12-08T03:26:40","date_gmt":"2020-12-08T03:26:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/fitdadblog.com\/?p=251"},"modified":"2020-12-09T03:36:52","modified_gmt":"2020-12-09T03:36:52","slug":"tomorrow-is-the-better-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/fitdadblog.com\/tomorrow-is-the-better-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"Tomorrow is the better choice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
I really am going to lose that weight. I really am going to run that marathon. I really am going to tell the people in my life how important they are to me. I really am going to climb that mountain. I really am going to conquer my fears. I really am going to do it!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tomorrow is a better day, really. I need to make sure I have all my research done before I do it. I can’t fail. What will people think if I fail? I can’t have them thinking I am one of those losers who actually goes out and tries something, learning from my mistakes then tries it again. I can’t fail and learn from it. I need to make sure I wait till the moment is just perfect to start. I need to go buy a few more books about dieting and fitness before I set foot in a gym and actually try it. I need to find the perfect marathon training program before I hit the pavement. I need to read more self-help books before I start actually trying to change myself. The more time I take to research, the more knowledge I will have. I need to do more research.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tomorrow is the best day for me. I can’t do it today. Today is Tuesday. Who starts changing on a Tuesday? Wait, I am going out to dinner tomorrow night with the guys. I can start a diet<\/a> then go binge drink and eat<\/a> bad food. That is setting myself up for failure. I can’t fail. I can’t start tomorrow. And there are plenty of marathons. Why do I have to do this next one? And being overweight, moody, and having no drive to do anything isn’t really hurting my relationships, so it really isn’t too bad. No sense in changing that. Mountains aren’t going anywhere. Fears help keep me safe in my comfort zone. It is too much work taking it all on at once. I can’t handle it. I will stress out and fail. I can’t fail. What will people think about me if I take too much on and won’t be able to handle it? I need to wait till the time is better.<\/p>\n\n\n\nTomorrow. I’ll do it tomorrow.<\/h3>\n\n\n\n