<\/a>I have been through some tough stuff. This experience tops them all. And if you read this when you are at the bottom of something and get the inspiration needed to know that you can overcome it and it can get better, then pouring my heart out here is worth it (writing this actually provoked all the emotions yet again \u2013 not sure if I will ever lose that). <\/p>\n\n\n\nIf you landed here and are going through a miscarriage, especially your first one, although I don’t think they would ever get easier, I feel the need to add a note to you. I can’t speak for women, but for you men trying to find a way to cope, here is my advice: Hold your wife. Lover her more than you ever think you can. As hard as it is for you, she had a connection with the baby that we will never experience. You need to be her rock. You need to be her stronghold. You need to make sure that she knows life is going to be OK, and this too shall page and you will be stronger because of it. She is looking for you for the strength to get her through, make sure to give it to her. But grieve. Go out with your best buddy and tell them the story. Tell them the feelings you have. They won’t get it. They won’t understand what you are going through but you need it. And no matter what comes next – whether you are successful trying or struggle awhile longer if you and your significant other tackle it head-on hand in hand, there ain’t nothing that can shake you although life will try. Show life it can’t push you around, and you will get up every single time. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Life is brutal. As much as I want it to be sunshine and rainbows – let’s face it: It’s not. You can do all you can, and still, then life is going to slap you around. Sometimes – you just have to let life happen. I learned this the hard way – and want to […]\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":157,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n
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